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Managing Children & Anxiety Around Our Chronic Illness

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Copyright: C King One of the most simultaneously exciting and frightening things in life is being a parent. Nothing makes your heart soar more than seeing your child achieve; nothing drives your heart to your mouth quicker than when they are fearless. For the most part, my parenting is like that of any other. Yet parents with chronic illness know that this creates an extra level of complexity. When do we tell our children about our condition? How do we handle questions? What do we do with the guilt of not always being able to do the things that other parents appear to do without limitations? I've spoken about chronic illness parenting guilt before. It's a unique emotion. This particular kind of guilt makes you doubt yourself. The biggest concern I have as a parent is am I doing it right? I always say it would be good if nature allowed us to give birth to our child, followed by a manual! My second concern as a parent is one specific to having a chronic illness: is my